Today was a day that will live forever in my mind...
No, not because it's President's Day.
But because today, after almost 19 years, my childhood pet, Bert the cat, passed peacefully away via medical assistance.
Why make such a big deal? He's just a cat... No... He was our one and only pet we had growing up, besides a short-lived (literally) spurt of raising some fish and the one time I got to bring the 3rd grade class pet hamster home for Spring Break.
This cat was a trooper. He was born in Copperas Cove, Texas in a litter of kittens that my piano teachers cat had. He was part Siamese and part Tabby cat. We named him Bert because all of the boys in my family were B's (dad Brad, brother Bret....) and my brother Bret actually named him.
Since living in Cove, he has spent time living in Kansas, a short time with Aunt Kirsten in Houston, in Emigration Canyon with Gma and Gpa Nelson while we lived in Korea, in Idaho, in Iowa, and when my parents moved to Japan he went to live again with Gma and Gpa Nelson, this time in Hurricane, Utah.
He was an odd cat--liked to chase things and bring them back in his mouth, his favorite being a plastic bag tied in a knot two or three times and then cut off on the ends.
He was not particularly fond of small children. He definitely had his favorite people as well, my Grandma Nelson being one.
Emily and I had a good cry this afternoon after I told her that Bert had passed away. I told her that he went to go see my Grandpa Nelson (who passed away in June of 2009.) I told Emily that I was very sad, but she told me that I shouldn't be sad. I asked her 'why?' and her response was this:
"Mommy, when you are sad or mean, the Holy Ghost leaves your heart.."
*This 3 year old explanation is due to the fact that we have been trying to teach her that it is not good to be mean, or the Holy Ghost cannot live at our house...*
But the sentiment was right...
And so I laughed, she gave me a hug, and we shared this special moment together.
RIP Bert
(Couldn't find a picture of him, although I know we have one somewhere.)